Wanting MORE … it’s allowed !

Wanting MORE … it’s allowed !

You, yes you.

You’re allowed to want more.

Wanting more life, more ahead, more reasons to smile, more peace, more purpose … after someone has lost their life. Can feel uncomfortable.

It may make you uncomfortable, is probably going to make some other people feel uncomfortable.

Surely, loss is teaching us whilst it takes away, as it strips us of our comfort. Teaching us that life is here, now, in all its beauty along with its brutality.

Life is a project that will end, has no set agenda. We create the agenda as we adjust & rewrite as we learn more about ourselves, others & life.

Learning that it really can end, anybody’s life can end at anytime. Is possibly the biggest lesson we will ever encounter … a life changing lesson.

Getting comfortable with the idea of wanting more life, more out of life, understanding that understanding everything is impossible.

It’s a better use of time to allow yourself to want more. Know, this is allowed, always was & always will be.

I don’t mean more possessions, not greed. No, just hunger for life. Simple, straightforward enthusiasm to live. So much in widowland is far from straightforward, I hear you say… or was it a scream !

A life that balances grief, holds loss, allows both to morph into more life ahead, in comfy shoes.

Please folks, get comfortable & announce .. “Yes please .. more”

Michelle X